Hmmmmm...idk what I feel now

Soooo...remember how I said that I am released from the hold that my crush had over me, right?  Well, I do believe that I am still released  from this infatuation that I had for him but now I have a whole new feeling. I mean since the activities fair I have seen him several times....I mean its a small school with even less black people, that's gonna happen. So I've had a couple conversations and several interactions with him, which have allowed me to believe that I actually like him. I mean for his character and demeanor--not just for his looks or persona. THIS IS WHERE MY DILEMMA COMES IN. Idk if I want to like him? I mean he doesn't have a girlfriend....that I know of, he is funny, pretty cool, & we kinda have a similar sense of humor. But he is greek and in all my experiences that doesn't bring about faithful, trustworthy individuals. I know I have a bias experience because I'm only basing it off Bradley greeks but I mean sometimes being greek doesn't bring out the best in you.......sorry. This may sound weird but I don't want to "actually" like someone and they turn out to be a dog....even though he doesn't seem like that type of person....ahhhhh.that's another one of my defense mechanisms to make it seem that everyone has ulterior motives so that I don't allow anyone to ever get close to me.  That's something else I have to work on in my life. But right now I'm stuck in this place where I kinda like him &I kinda sorta believe he may like me too but of course I'm too scared to ask. I mean here is an example of why I think he may like me...you be the judge of whether he really does:
We had an event called Meet the Greeks where each NPHC organization can provide information to freshman and anyone else interested in greek life. Sooooo I'm standing in the lobby waiting for people to come to the event when for no apparent reason the kappas come out of their room and stand in the lobby with me. Ya know I didn't understand why it happened but I was gonna roll with it. Being the conversationalist that I am I begin to talk to them about another member of their chapter and what they expect to happen at this event. But my crush tended to stand back and not say much*that seems like the type of guy he is*, yet he wouldn't leave the lobby unless I left the lobby. WEIRD right? Anywho, so for a while he wouldn't say anything but when he saw these little cards that I made for the event he decided to tease me about them. * I guess since I was messing with him about their table at the activities fair he is okay with joking with me, which is fine* Then he started looking around in the lobby at pictures and showcases that have been there for months if not years.......really you haven't ever looked at these pictures before. I mean he was just finding reasons to stay in the lobby. Soooo I asked him about their room and what they had,and we kinda conversed about that but I had to leave their room because being the president of NPHC I tend to want to make sure nothing crazy is happening. But I just thought that was interesting that they gravitated towards me because they are good friends with the deltas but they were hanging out in the lobby with me. Idk what to think of it. But yeeeeeeeah that where I stand. In a place of idk and pure confusion. Hopefully, I will figure it out soon. until then deuces.