Finding the Man of My Dreams

Well, since I was young I never had good luck with men, always seemed to be the friend not the girlfriend.  Use to make me mad because the boy that I dreamed about would never see me but the boy that I completely hated always seemed to be around.....JUST MY LUCK. So after a while I gave up and came to terms with the fact that I just wasn't meant to have a boyfriend. Believing this made high school so much easier because I wasn't consumed with what boy did or did not like me...I didn't care. College on the otherhand is a different story because you are coming into young adult years. I mean I'm almost 22 and I've never had a boyfriend....ridiculous, right? Its not like I'm a homebody, I get out occassionally and I know people, yet there has not been one guy who has had the courage to walk up to me and simply introduce himself. I mean guys may look even stare though they never say a thing. Its not my job to initiate conversation if you are the one staring at me during events or class. I'm not an intimidating women, I may walk with confidence and speak my mind but since when has those qualities been bad. Yeeeeeah, going to a predominantly white university doesn't help my situation, but sometimes I just wish an educated, young black man...preferibly handsome would just come up  to me and sweep me off my feet. I guess right now thats too much to ask for, but I am still looking for the one man who will truly take my breath away.